Archive for August, 2012

My new challenge is the Alphabet Author and Book Challenge. This involves me going through authors from A-Z and choosing a book by each author which i have either read or want to read!

26 days, 26 authors, 26 books!

Tomorrow will see the start of this new challenge, and as i am on holiday for the first half of it, most posts will be scheduled so i apologise if i can’t answer comments!

Please check back each day for each new post!

I have just finished reading “The Secret Intensity of Everyday Life” by William Nicholson. I actually bought this ebook back in May and it’s taken me a while to get around to it, but now i decided that i fancied a less frantic paced book to my usual choices!

The Secret Intensity of Everyday Life - William Nicholson

The Secret Intensity of Everyday Life – William Nicholson (via Amazon)

It is somewhat different to my usual book choices, but it was easy to read and fascinating with the interconnecting stories of the characters.

The central story is of the sudden return of happily married Laura’s first love, Nick. We discover the intensity of their short relationship and its sudden ending, and see that neither party has forgotten that first love. Things are more complicated now, as Laura has grown older and has her own life with her husband and children. It is interesting to see how Nick’s return affects Laura, and also her husband, Henry.

We get an insight into Henry’s life at work and his feelings towards his wife and to the star of the show which he wrote.

We also see how Laura and Henry’s son, Jack, struggles with trying to fit in with the right boys at school, even though the decisions made are potentially damaging to him and to the boys’ hero, dubbed the “Dogman”. The boy’s point of view is a nice change from the angle of the adults, bringing in his naivety to the story.

We also discover what goes on behind closed doors. In the case of the young teacher, Alan, we discover his anguish towards the many rejections he receives because of his writing, and also his growing feelings for the single mother whose child he tries to help through bullying. We also find that Alan’s old lonely neighbour has secret desires for Alan, and she is sure he feels the same, although as the reader we unfortunately know better.

Other characters who are explored include: the single mother’s mother and her relationship with her dog, the village rector and his different approach to religion, and the so-called  ”Dogman” and his little family.

I liked this book with all the facets which make up a satisfying whole. Themes covered include all kinds of love, death, grief, midlife crisis, identity, happiness, and so on.

I give this book a respectable 7 out of 10 because it is well written, with enough juicy bits to make you want to find out what happens to the characters. We get satisfactory closure on some of the characters’ stories, although a few are left unanswered. The main story with Laura and her feelings for Nick has a good ending, one which i actually hoped for because some things are better the way they are! Definitely a good read if you want something realistic and a quiet easy read.

Note: I read this on my Kindle.

“Do not pity the dead, Harry. Pity the living, and, above all those who live without love.
― Albus Dumbledore , Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, J.K. Rowling

“Life and existence have no value in themselves. We mean nothing; not even those who are needed mean anything. The only thing of real value is what we produce.” 

― Ninni Holmqvist, The Unit

Today, the great writer Nina Bawden passed away at the grand age of 87.

Nina Bawden (1925-2012)

Nina Bawden (1925-2012)

I loved “The Witch’s Daughter” as a child and i was forever checking it out of the library because it was a big favourite of mine. I really need to buy my own copy of it because i would love to re-read it!

The Witch's Daughter - Nina Bawden

The Witch’s Daughter – Nina Bawden

Nina was best known for “Carrie’s War”, which i have actually never read! So i think i will put that on my To Read list!

“This wasn’t the way he had expected his life to be. It worked, but that was about all. Happiness had got lost somewhere along the way.” 
― Harbor, John Ajvide Lindqvist

“What he’s really saying is: Please be a human being. With a life so full of rules and regiments, it’s so easy to forget that’s what they are. She knows—she sees—how often compassion takes a back seat to expediency.” 
― Unwind, Neal Shusterman

Today, as the results days for GCSE and A Level are looming, i thought i’d share a list of things i wish i’d know about before i went to university:

  1. Working hard to get a 1st or a 2:1 at the end of your degree is infinitely better. A 2:2 means your CV is more likely to be ignored by picky employers (but it’s not the end of the world if you do get a 2:2).
  2. If you can get a part-time job while at uni, do it. Experience, money, something to do, etc.
  3. Knowing what you want to do after studying is useful. If not, do lots of research before and during your degree so you know all your options.
  4. Get as much experience in your field as you can, even if it’s unpaid. Experience is the only thing that will stop you getting a job later.
  5. Budgeting is essential – put enough aside to get you through the months comfortably, and put any excess into savings.
  6. Networking is very important.
  7. If you do English, make sure you do more activities outside your studies to be a more rounded individual.
  8. If you do a Masters, make sure you make the most of doing work experience during it.
  9. Have fun! If you need a break, take it!
( In reference to #1, look at the following Guardian article: What-students-do-if-their-grades-are-low?)